Jealousy problem advise:( ?

I'm sure that hurt your feelings but you need to learn how to let the smaller things go. My husband is a car freak too & he's always on those forums. They're a bunch of rednecks in my opinion but whatever. That's what those guys talk about, chicks & cars. My husband has even said some really stupid sh!t on there to fit in with the other gear heads & he's not at all like that. He just tries to look cool sometimes. Don't take it too seriously. You have a history of witnessing cheating & you're a little more defensive because of it but a lot of us have actually been cheated on ourselves & we have overcome that. You can't put that kind of label on people because of your past.