I hate being called "Oreo" or "Coconut"?

You've got the right attitude - accept all. Unfortunately issues like this are still around because in every race there are the few who still cling to "pride" as an excuse. There's a difference in pride and being petty - you've just matured a little faster than they have (maybe they never will) Be proud of who you are ... I think you're doing great and you know what lot's of people love oreo's and coconut's - I like milk with my oreo's and mounds and almond joy wouldn't be half as good without a coconut