I have wide shoulders and hate them =/ -I'm a girl?

dont worry, your not the only one out there wide shoulders. i also have wide shoulders.and im just 14! but you know what? i dont let it get to me.just because my shoulders are wide,im not going to mope around.im confident with the rest of my body parts,face,and natural beauty. guys dont seem to mind my wide a*s shoulders. guys flirt with me, just like a regular girl. you said u had a pretty face right? then what are you waiting formn work it girl! who gives a living shyt about what other people think? and who wants to flirt with a shallow dude anyway? when shallow guys try to pick me up, i say "go find a typical blonde". no offense to blonde people though. just a saying i like to use to get to the point. and to answer your qouestions, you say that you arent athletic.but you actually are.you said you did swimming . karate, and other stuff i dont remember. first. i want you to know that swimming makes your shoulders extreamly wide. my guy friend swimmed the entire summer and his shoulders became football player shoulders.and i think my shoulders grew a centimeter or maybe not during the summer because of the pool. also. working out with those dumbells etc, anything that has to do with arm lifting, makes your shoulders appear wider because you are working out the muscles in your arm and shoulders. if you want to loose muscles, eat less protein. like red meat etc. i dont know that much about the foods you shouldnt eat in order too lose muscles so look it up in google. as for the belly fat , doing crunches will help. i recommend curl ups.but not all the way.like half curl ups. just go up until you feel pressure in your stomach.thats all you need, you dont need to go all the way up cause its not doing ything for you and its a waste of time.i have a flat stomach because i have been doing 100-200 a day. make sure you go up until your feel a sesation in your abs.and then go down. also, pace yourself. for more information you could just look it up in google. for the clothes, wear whatever the hell you want.