Is your spouse or significant other everything you could ask for?

No nothing is never what it seems,but in the beginnings there was something that attracted you to him,like there was something that attracted him to you,just learn to be grateful for what you have, you say that he's not supportive or caring but that might be the issue,but he may be loving you in other ways that you might not even know,sometimes it could be the smallest things,stop looking at what he's missing and start lookin at what you both share........LOVE